I am not a big fan of endless emails back and fourth and would generally like to progress to talk to the person of interest on the phone as soon as possible. If they get the joke..whatever you wanna call it, then you just feel that mojo baby ...yeahhhh baby yeahhhh im such a dork its unreal.
My initial message I try to keep brief with an interesting headline to catch some attention. If i get a positive response to my initial message I will usually give out my phone number in my more detailed follow up message as well as my facebook url. It amazes me how quickly men give their phone number in the first contact. I've been asked for my number just as quickly and I ignore the request so that I won't live to regret it!
then i started browsing their system - just like POF - quest breaks down chat into several different categories, i.e.
love and relationships, dating, intimate encounters (i.e.
Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc. All i met in person is pretty much what i expected.