I’d laugh it off but I would feel awful because I knew I liked these guys for a reason, they had great qualities, but they didn’t see the same great qualities in themselves. A note to the men- If you have the attention of the confident woman you’re doing a hell of a lot better than a lot of men.
If she’s actually paying attention to you there’s something she likes. But, she’s probably secretly rooting for you and you need to stop letting your insecurities get in the way. Adam, before we wrap up, any advice you can give to the ladies?
Instead, 84 per cent of women would rather walk or away or use the equipment hogger as an excuse to finish up their own workout (clever! Or maybe, as fitness blogger Paula Goodyer suggests, find a less intimidating outdoor gym, Or perhaps you could forget your half-hearted gym routine entirely and find an exercise that you enjoy more.
My wife knows that I work out so much because of my vanity and so she can poke fun about it with me and I have never accused her of checking out other guys because I’m an idiot.
As the great philosopher Ludacris once said, “They wants a lady in the streets but a freak in the bed.” Most guys want a girl to be both confident but also taking a back seat to their own ego.
The thing that confuses me the most is that I always hear guys say they want the confident, independent girl who can hold her own, but then when they get her I watch them all run away and date the girl they can walk all over.
I think I have a pretty good idea of what the actual “problem” is, but getting a guy’s perspective will be way more interesting, so I’m enlisting my bro-friend, Adam.
If one of us is fortunate enough to meet a confident girl it takes an equally confident guy to make it work in the long run.