Sit down for a few minutes and write down the advantages of staying with your partner. When you compare the lists, you will either find that the benefits outweigh any disadvantages, or that reasons to break up are more compelling than the ones to stay together.As a general rule, the voices inside us are there for a reason, and they should be listened to.
Either way, the person you choose to spend your life with should really lift you up rather than drag you down.
And it shouldn't feel like "work" most of the time.
In Genesis it says, Then the Lord God said, "It is not good for the man to be alone; I will make him a helper suitable for him." As Adam and Eve demonstrate, no matter how many friends we have, in order to fulfill our deep need for love and affection, we need close relationships with others, especially the opposite sex.
One of the worst of all human conditions is loneliness.
Sure, they will have some doubts and insecurities (who doesn't?