However, when he thinks that he is the only candidate and there is no competition, he will think you have nothing else to do but to wait for him, so he won’t make you a priority and it will show in his behavior.Men don’t like it when women date multiple men because if you are not sleeping with him, he will feel chumped because he’ll assume you are sleeping with the other guy.I have been back on the dating scene for about two years now.
But the way my attention span is set up I don't think I can commit to it for very long.
If I am dating a woman and she tells me upfront that she is dating other men besides me, I would not take her seriously. I might continue to have sex with her, but it probably won’t go much further than that.
But there is an obvious double-standard here and double-standards are bull - I make my own rules. Men don't tell all of their business so why should we?
Also, just because you are dating more than one man, does it automatically mean you are having sex with all of them? I am not promoting hoeing, just seeing what options there are.
Women can try to make the argument that men date multiple women all the time, but men only do this when we are out to ‘play’ - we don’t do this when we are looking for ‘the one’.